Supporting someone affected by elder abuse

An older person may not recognise what’s happening to them is abuse or family and domestic violence.

They may hide what they’re experiencing because they’re afraid of what might happen if anyone finds out.

What is elder abuse

Elder abuse is any type of abuse directed at an older person, including:

  • neglect
  • physical abuse
  • sexual abuse
  • financial abuse
  • emotional abuse
  • verbal abuse
  • social abuse.

It can be a single or repeated act that causes harm and fear in a relationship with someone they trust.

Signs of elder abuse

The signs of abuse can vary depending on what they’re experiencing. Find out more about signs of elder abuse on the Seniors Rights Victoria website.

How to support someone experiencing elder abuse

If you suspect someone you know is experiencing elder abuse, you can start a conversation by asking:

  • How are things at home?
  • How do you feel your (husband, daughter, son or carer) is managing?
  • How are you managing financially?

You can support them by:

  • getting information about what’s been going on and record the details
  • recording what you heard or saw, and when it happened
  • contacting 000 if there’s immediate risk or harm
  • reporting it to 1800RESPECT or the elder abuse phone line on the Department of Health and Aged Care website.

Find out more about supporting someone who has experienced abuse on the Seniors Rights Victoria website.

Information in your language

You can find translated factsheets about elder abuse on the Australian Human Rights Commission website. They may help you identify if you’re experiencing family and domestic violence.

Page last updated: 21 April 2023