Separating safely

Find resources to help you safely leave a relationship.

Where to start

It’s important you take steps to keep yourself and your information safe when separating.

If possible, you should consider:

  • changing passwords for online accounts - avoid sharing passwords with family and partners
  • securing your personal identity documents, such as passports and birth certificates
  • redirecting your mail
  • getting a separate device like a tablet or smart phone
  • securing your house by changing locks and alarm codes
  • telling schools or child care providers about care arrangements
  • changing your routine
  • changing your phone number and email address
  • getting your own Medicare card
  • getting a bank account in your own name
  • making a safety plan.

Find out about updating your details.

Find out how you can protect your myGov account including if you suspect suspicious activity on your account.

Help with food, clothes, housing and money

Food, clothes and housing help

If you’re affected by domestic violence, find services to help with food, clothing and housing. These links will take you away from myGov.

  • Ask Izzy

    Search for housing, food, clothing, Wi-Fi and somewhere to charge your phone in your area.

  • The Salvation Army

    Call the emergency relief team. They can find services you need and give you a help package.

  • Australian Red Cross

    Red Cross helps to find safe and suitable shelter through a case worker.

Financial help

Find out about financial help you may get. Some of these links will take you away from myGov.

Talk to someone

Relationships Australia advocates for respectful relationships. Find out how to contact them on the Relationships Australia website.

1800RESPECT is a free 24-hour confidential service that offers counselling and safety plans. Find contact details on the 1800RESPECT website or call 1800 737 732.

Find out about help if you're experiencing family and domestic violence.

Finding legal help

Find legal help on the Family Violence Law Help website.

You can also contact the Family Relationships Advice line on 1800 050 321 for confidential information.

Find out about getting legal help if you're experiencing family and domestic violence.

Help in your language

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Page last updated: 16 November 2023